OPINION: I'm Such a Drama Queen

Last night, I had a conversation with my roommate. She's talking about her financial problems. It was not really supposed to be her problem, it was her parents'. But because she is a part of the family, it becomes her problem too. I would not disclose how much she needs but it's really a big amount. She's saying that there are some things she wants to do and yet she can't do them because a big part of her pay is allotted to paying off the debt.

Then today, my friend gave his testimony on how he survived his college life and how he is helping his siblings by sending them to school. I would say I was pretty much impressed...

...and embarrassed. I realized how much of a drama queen I am. I feel so selfish. I can do a lot of things on a whim because I don't have that much of a burden when it comes to my family. I am not obliged to help. They don't ask anything from me. And yet, I complain. When some of my relatives ask for help, I complain. Mainly because I think of the things I have planned on spending the money for, and I would be honest that most of them are just for my personal enjoyment. Not really a necessity.

Today, I learned that I am so blessed and I have nothing to do but be thankful with what I have and with what I am enjoying.

May I always remember the bigger sacrifices of my friends whenever I am asked to give up a little of my whims.

OPINION: Miss Universe 2011 and Religion

“I would not change my religion because, first of all, I love my God who created me and if that person truly loves me, he must also love my God.” 
 -Shamcey Supsup


A lot of Filipinos were disappointed because Shamcey was not able to bring home the crown. Being 3rd runner up is still an achievement, though. 


I think I can see why she was not able to totally win it. There is a loophole in her answer because that same statement could be used against her by her man. Being a member of a minority in terms of religion (I am a Seventh-day Adventist), I have encountered people who had to deal with this question in real life. 


The safer answer in my opinion would have to be something like this: "I would not change my religion in the same way that I would not ask him to change his. When you love a person, you accept everything about him, including his religion. Both of us should have mutual respect with each other's beliefs and just maintain an open mind. Religion should be based on conviction and not on marriage. Thank you."


But then again, I am not under pressure and I had enough time to think about it. 

Still, Congratulations Shamcey, and thank you for making the Filipinos proud once again!